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Thursday, December 30, 2010

Value Yourself ...

Humans are social organisms, they exhibit living together and form a society or contribute to a Community...In a community we all have a particular duty...Everyone of us are born to do a particular duty...and Everyone of us are capable of something...and We all have got a Particular talent in which we are better than anyone-else ...mostly people fail to identify their own talents...they appreciate other's talents and think that its impossible for them...All the Humans have almost the same ability...but Dedication and Desire Varies....Where your dedication is...what your desire is ...is what you Become....Don't mind what you are now...But just concentrate on what you want you To Become....The Eternal Energy around You will show you the way..

You must be thinking that I told,All the Humans have got almost the same ability..so, why don't everyone with same desire become the same ?...There is nothing impossible for anyone...But,There is a particular duty for everyone...the nature will allow us to do our own duty only...To Become the Best ...We should not compete with others around us...But,We should Realise our own capability and talent ...we should find out in what we are good at...and what is the talent you got in highest amount than your other talents...You may be good in music,dance,writing poems,drawing or studies and many things at the same time..But there is an Unbeatable Talent of yours...in which you are the Best...Find that Out...and Improve it...Your dedication and desire will show you the way to your Victory..In that Your Eternal Energy will also Help You and You will be able to complete your Duty...

There are People who don't value their-selves,They think that its not in their hands...and they wont search for the talent they got... We should Not Underestimate ourselves....We should know our talents and We must Overcome our Weaknesses, and improve the talents what we have got....No one in the world is born without a duty...No one is there devoid of talent...And Nothing is Impossible For anyone...Believe In Yourself and Value Yourself....You are the best in Something, find out what it is....find your talent.....and Use it..Don't waste a life...without living Properly...The world should Know what your duty is and what your talent is ...Show the world What you have got...show the people What You are...Hope you will find your best Quality in You..Value Yourself...You Worth a Great Contribution To the Universe....May God Bless You....Best Wishes For You..........Thank You.......

Feeling Guilty

Its a Natural Emotion comes out when we hurt someone mentally or physically..and we realise that its not good to hurt anyone and we starts accepting the truth that we did a wrong thing.. We feel guilty about that... I believe that its good to feel guilty...that's the first sign that we are improving our attitudes...and we are realising our own weaknesses and mistakes. Humans should realise their own mistakes...not only that..we should also apologise for our mistakes...there is no need to be ashamed of apologising and we should learn from that mistake... and we should add it to our experience and never let the same situation happen again...
Some people commit mistakes in their life, and they feel guilty for the mistake whole their life....its good that you don't forget the mistake, But its not a good tthing to blame your self for the mistake you have done.., you should either correct your mistake or should do some compensation to your mistake...and usually a true Apology is enough for many people to forgive you for your mistake...


The people who feel guilty,should not be blamed further, because they understood their mistake, they admit it and feel sorry for that. These people should be treated carefully as they are highly sensitive at that time, if we start blaming them, they may not be strong enough to withstand that situation.So, we must handle them calmly and softly, we must be ready to accept their apologies, and we must forget theirs sins and we should lead them to the world of purity and happiness.

And incase if we reject their apologies and if we blame them further,they may become even worse personality than we have seen or sometimes they may get broken to death.And if either of these happens, we will be the only one responsible for it.Our Lord Jesus has taught us many great lessons of forgiving others, even our enemies.so, we should never forget to forgive others. And we should not be late to forgive others.

Even Lord Jesus has told that "the moment someone feels guilty, then itself his mistakes are forgiven". May God Bless You All... Thank You

Thursday, December 23, 2010

Are You Feeling Lonely... ?

     Our Lives are full of Supports and Dependence, knowingly or unknowingly,We are depending on Others...A Support from Our Loved ones makes us Happy and Strong.In a Trip to Jungle, If someone is there with you,the trip will be fun and adventurous for you...But if you go Alone to the Jungle,it will be like a Nightmare for you and your each step will be with fear,You wont Enjoy the Journey.
     But Unfortunately ,Its not in our hands to choose to Walk along with Others through out the Journey, In all our lives, always will be a Path where we must walk alone ...Instead of Taking those Circumstances as a challenge,We easily Give Up due to Fear,We wont dare to take one step Further,On that point you Lose all Your Confidence to Win the Race of Your Life...You Must Remember that Such circumstances are part of Life and No matter How Dark and How Long It may Seem to you,You must Continue your Journey with courage,The Path may Lead you to your Victory.
  We should not expect Others to be with us through out Our Journey,We should move on...because its Our Journey and its our own duty to Finish it up...
   In Life Whenever you come across such a situation, When Others are around you but, no one is Supporting you or Helping you in your journey,you should not Sit and Cry..,You Should you should continue your Journey,believing in yourself and in the Eternal Power.I am sure,If you believe so and move on, You will Find Your Victory at the End of your courageous Journey through the Dark Path....May God Bless You...  Thank You....

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Greatness Lies In Forgiving ...


People are busy in taking Revenge, They just need their enemy to suffer like they suffered by them...And this 'Give and Take' policy continues...Sometimes, the Revenge is carried from generation to generation. When their Enemy gets Hurt, they Enjoys ...We should not be Happy on others failure... Your Victory is not in Harming someone, Its not in someone's Tears...How Can we be happy by seeing someone's burning house...We are Humans, and we have to show humanity...Remember, "Winning the Game is Not Important than Winning the Heart".Forgiving others is something, which will give you Great Pleasure...You will be Proud of your self after doing it, Don't think that you are becoming Smaller in other's eyes...and you are not forgiving because you are Weaker than them...You are Forgiving because, you are Great...and Stronger than them...Only a Wise Man can Forgive other's faults...
      Anger, Grudge and Revenge will Only give you Tears... The people who Go for the Battle Have to shed Blood ...and lose lives ..Its not only the fighter who suffers from the War.. But also their Families...War Takes Away Peace Of Our Lives...After Taking Lots of Life, and seeing Lots of Blood Sheds, No Warrior Enjoys Peace...Ex: 'The Story of Great King Asoka, After the conquest Of Kalinga, When he roamed in the city, He got Tears in his eyes, He felt Shame on his Victory...And adopted Buddhism and Taught people about Peace ...'.Nothing Lasts Forever...then Why Are We Fighting each other?
"Live Happily...And Let Other's To Live Happily... Let's Hope We All Get Peace In Our Lives ...May God Bless You...Thank You...

Monday, December 20, 2010

Start A New Life ...Forget The Past ...

  "Human Mind will Forget Many things they Gained in their Life...,But will Never Forget What they have Lost in their Life...",We have Lost many Valuable things in our life...and once the lose makes a wound in our heart,it takes years to Heal ...Sometimes, They Never Heal...Or We Never Let them To...
But,Every time I used to tell you that "If you Believe,there will always be an option for you..." Never Get tiered of Your Prayers...Trust in God...Have Faith in You...There is Nothing Impossible For You...You can forget those Pleasant moments which became unpleasant now as a Memory, Consider that you had a beautiful Rose plant with the First Red Rose Flower On it in Your Garden ...You loved the plant more than any other plant in Your Garden...Every time you observe the garden, you will notice only the plant you Loved most...and one day...when its flower fades away ...Your heart breaks...Then, only thing left for you will be its stem,leaves and thorns that hurts You ...you keep the flower's memory safe...But, after some day, you will start observing the other plants and its Flowers and their Charm...,you will start forgetting the first Rose Flower...after some time,the next rose flower will bloom...but, you wont get much attachment with the flower this time...you will start accepting the reality...
         Our life is also like the Garden,and some Precious Roses we keep Near to our Heart,when its Lost...we think that we have Lost our World..,"we forgets that even the faded flower's own plant teaches us that...it can be replaced..by blooming another one in its own stem...", But we have the Whole Garden with so many Flowers which are Bloomed For Us...We Just Need To Observe Them...Today...,From this moment,Start a New life...Let the Wounds Of Your Memories Get Healed...Rise Again...Live On...
 ...Thank You..

Saturday, December 18, 2010

When You Lose Hope ...

    In all our lives, we have moments when we lost hope in ourselves...Its the hardest times of our life...when there is not even a pinch of hope left in our heart...People think that there is no way left for them to survive...The Biggest Lesson in the book of life is “Learning to live with hope” and its not easy to learn ...Life gives may circumstances to teach us this lesson...but we give up after the first few try...We stops believing in ourselves ...Remember, Life is full of hope...
Let me take an example of a Big tree in the forest...which has strength of its bark and has a lot fruits and leaves in it...its life is happy...but it can't move... many people takes the advantages of its fruits, leaves and it's bark's... people leave the tree with no hope...but it can't move, it can't cry...its completely helpless..the dying tree lives with the same hope and courage till its last moment..Although it had the strength ,it became helpless...But Nature has given us more priority.. We are advanced than any other organisms...We are not dying trees to stick to the same ground and take all those wounds that circumstances gives us ..We can find another way...We have Options...Remember, 'There is Always an Option given by the Nature'...But we must be strong enough to find that out...We should Never Give up...And Never Lose Hope in Life...If You have Hope...You will get Strength and Courage to Move on...And If you Dare To Move on...You will see the Way which is Opened for You...I Hope That All Of You Will Live Your Life With Great Hope...If you do so, I Promise You will Find Happiness In Every moment of your Life......Thank You...

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Learn To Love Your Life ...

     Give  life  to your life....Come out of your dark room...,where everything other than you is Artificial.Go to the nature...feel the cold Breeze..., it will blow out your Sadness...and will lighten your mind...,Kiss the Rain...feel its gentle Touch...it will wash away your Pain...feel the Snow...,it has the Power to dissolve your Grief ...Embrace the Tall tree...then you will forget the pain of loneliness...open your eyes to the fresh Dark blue sky..,then you will forget hard times that you have seen...forget all your past..live from today.its never too late to Live, ... You can Rise again...Nature will give you Hope...Remember, every time you fall there was a Powerful energy that hold you in its arms...Nature is the link that will connect you to the Eternal power...Nature is the remedy for the Wounds in your Heart...it carried you till here...it will never let you to Break down in its arms...Believe in it...Because we are born from the Nature...You are in its arms...And it will take care of you...